I just want to take this time and send my deepest condolence to Go Eunbi’s family, friends and relatives.
I’ll be honest and say that I am not a fan of Ladies Code. Not because I ‘hate’ their music or I find them ‘annoying’, NOT AT ALL. I’ll be honest and tell you that I have scoffed and rolled my eyes when, ‘Ladies Code talks about being similar to Wonder Girls.’ I didn’t scoff and roll my eyes because I hate them, it’s because there’s no group that are ‘similar’ or ‘the same.’ All of them have their own uniqueness.
To read, ‘car accident’ in a KPOP article, all of us would just go, ‘Gosh, not again.’ But to read an article saying this member passed away, that member got injured and needs surgery and the others have minor injuries; that’s a big BLOW. It’s shocking, it makes you sad, it makes you angry, it makes you confused and it makes you blame. It basically makes you go crazy.
To think that fanwars still exists today and fans going at each others throats, it’s saddening isn’t it? Why should we fight? Why should we leave mean comments? Does it make us all feel better? Yes, sometimes there is this sense of accomplishment when you bring someone, and or even a WHOLE fandom down. But seriously? That feeling of accomplishment will vanish.
KPOP fans. I think that we’re the most dedicated, hardworking, loyal, funny, talented and diverse fans. We’re the ones, along with our biases, who needs to LEARN how to be thick skinned. We get bashed because we listen to something ‘weird.’ Our biases gets bashed because their not ‘talented.’ Bullshit right? Why do we still have to bash each other when other people are already doing it? We should be supportive of everyone and we should all be fighting for each other, not WITH each other.
It’s sad seeing all fandoms getting together only when something tragic happens. It’s heartwarming too. But seriously? All of us should always be there with each other.
Your biases, look at them. All of them care for each other, all of them respect each other. Why can’t we be like them? Their always busy, yet they still have time to listen to other groups’ music, they make time to get to know someone and become friends. Why can’t we do that? We have so much free time compared to them.
We should live our lives to the fullest, befriend others, stop with the fanwars. It’s true, you never know what will happen.
21 years old. Only 21 years of enjoying life. Only a year of living her dream. But I know, Heaven yet again welcomed another beautiful, talented, kind, nice, and caring angel in it’s arms. #RIPEunB #PrayForLadiesCode